A Definition “Fellowship”

The Oxford American Dictionary (the electronic version that came with my Mac) says:

fellowship |ˈfelōˌ sh ip| noun
1. friendly association, esp. with people who share one’s interests : they valued fun and good fellowship as the cement of the community.
• a group of people meeting to pursue a shared interest or aim.
• a guild or corporation.
2. an endowment established or a sum of money awarded to support a scholar or student engaged in advanced research in a particular field : a four-year postdoctoral fellowship.
• the status of a fellow of a college or society : she held the Faulkner fellowship.

This morning I spoke at the Lake Minnetonka – Excelsior Morning Rotary Club. They meet every Wednesday morning at Maynard’s in Excelsior. I like speaking at service organization meetings. They are always very welcoming and are founded on a mission of service.

As I watched the group interact this morning it reminded me of the importance of fellowship in our spiritual lives. I look at personal faith practices, meditation, prayer, reflection, all as important spiritual fitness exercises and routines. But if I had to choose just one spiritual fitness exercise, I’d have to choose the practice of fellowship. It is important to feel like a part of something that is bigger than yourself. To feel like a part of something where you are accepted as who you are, imperfections and all, because of a “common interest, value or purpose”.

I think that is why there is such a tight bond and culture among public safety professionals, we accept each other (as well as hold each other accountable) because of our common mission, we protect. And we actually enjoy each other’s company, just as these rotary members clearly do.

So to the Lake Minnetonka – Excelsior Morning Rotary Club, thank you for the opportunity to share my message on spiritual fitness, and thank you for the fellowship we shared.

Question for the day: “Where do you share the fellowship experience?”

more…. A Definition “Spiritual Fitness”

Last week I received a question on the “Spiritual Fitness” definition.

Chris wrote: “OK. What are the essential spiritual functions of a public safety officer? How do you define that? I can’t come hear you speak so I am going to need it via this weblog!”

The origin of “essential spiritual functions” comes from my work with physical fitness programs that started more than 15 years ago. The Americans with Disabilities Act impacted how we could conduct physical fitness training and specifically physical fitness evaluations. We could only evaluate the performance of essential functions of the job, and since we were dealing with physical fitness, we could evaluate essential “physical” functions.

Therefore we could evaluate the ability to chase someone, handcuff them, wrestle with them. We could evaluate the ability to drive a car, shoot a gun, give verbal commands and the countless other physical skills needed to perform the job. We could not evaluate the number of push-ups or sit-ups a person could perform. These exercises measured strength and endurance but not the specific essential functions that officers performed.

So, again I draw the physical /spiritual fitness comparison. Essential spiritual functions of police work are not prayer, faith, religion, meditation (push-ups, sit-ups, etc). Essential spiritual functions that police officers must perform are things like applying fairness in enforcement, being compassionate with victims as well as suspects, being ethical, not abusing authority, applying the spirit of the law, honesty, integrity and the countless other spiritual skills needed to perform the job. One of the most demanding spiritual functions of this job is the ability to manage personal emotions. Officers need the ability to turn off personal emotions in the numerous traumatic situations they encounter. More importantly they need to know how to turn those emotions back on.

But we need to remember, spiritual fitness is job performance. We cannot forget that spiritual exercises, like those listed above, are critical elements in effective spiritual fitness training program.

Comments Are On!(and some are coming in)

A couple of weeks ago we turned on the “comments” option at the bottom of the posts. For those of us that are learning as we go in the weblogging world, (what you are reading is actually is a weblog, aka “blog” for those of you that didn’t know) we have to learn about the different functions and protocols, customs and benefits of reading and responding to weblogs.

The comments function is an important tool for building an informative and interesting interactive website. This past week I received a few (three actually) comments on my posts. I will respond to some of the comments with an additional comment, some comments need no response, hopefully some comments will stimulate a comment or two from other readers and sometimes I will respond to the comment in a new post. For instance, today I added comments to my posts from 2/23 and 2/14. I intend to write an additional post regarding comments on the 2/21 post.

So if you are new to the weblogging world, check out the comments function of current and previous posts. You click on the word “comments” and you can read what some other people have to say or say something yourself.

“Retirement Academy” Session 1

Last night was the first session of a “Retirement Academy” put on by the Eden Prairie Police Department in cooperation with the South Metro Public Safety Training Facility, located in Edina. The concept of the academy was developed when I was still working for the EPPD and exploring my retirement options. EPPD Training Sgt. Dave Becker took responsibility for putting the course together along with the help of several other department and city staff members. It is a very new concept and last night was our first glimpse of whether or not the idea would work. And clearly, it does!

There will be five sessions, each session held once a week for 2-3 hours in the evening. Session topics will cover transition impact of the eight facets of life, financial considerations, spiritual and emotional perspectives, relationship impacts and conclude with a panel discussion of retirees sharing their experiences.

Last night we had the great opportunity to have Dr Steven Geiger lead the opening session. Dr. Geiger has a very interesting background ranging from his early days as a police officer with Eden Prairie, to his experiences as a police psychologist with the Los Angeles Police Department to his current role as a successful business leader. His wide range of qualifications and experiences provided a great learning experience for the participants. He will return for week 4 to provide some follow-up and also share some thoughts on how relationships are impacted by the retirement transition.

I have the opportunity to host and MC the academy. It was a great experience last night and I look forward to the future sessions. I believe planning significant professional transitions is a critical component of spiritual fitness. My goal at the end of this academy is to provide a format for other agencies to put on similar training opportunities.

One thought that really hit me last night was that managing a career transition such as retirement isn’t really that complicated, but it definitely is a lot of hard work. A little training, planning and focusing can have a great impact on personal success in the transition.

I’ll keep you posted as the sessions progress!

A Definition “Spiritual Fitness”

Yesterday morning I had the opportunity to tell the story of Public Safety Ministries and the concept of Spiritual Fitness with the Eden Prairie A.M. Rotary Club. I’ve shared stories with the group a few time in the past and I always enjoy the opportunity to get together with this wonderful service oranization.

After the meeting one of my friends gave me a few suggestions on my presentation. One suggestion was that I come up with a one sentence definition of Spiritual Fitness that people could take with them. I’ve made several attempts at a simple definition, but it always ended up with more words that I’d like, so I’ve avoided writing it down. But in the spirit of Monday’s Post, and Bob’s suggestion I came up with the following definition:

Spiritual Fitness in the Public Safety Professions

The ability to perform the essential functions of a public safety professional’s duties and responsibilities that require specific spiritual capabilities and aptitudes.

or a shorter (giving up excess words for Lent) version:

The ability to perform the essential spiritual functions of a public safety occupation.

I could, and proably will, eventually give you more background to the reasoning behind choosing these words. But again, in the spirit of Mondays post, I’ll stop right here.