A Blessing Received

One of the EPPD Chaplains, Father Tim Power gave me a wonderful gift at my retirement celebration, My Grandfathers Blessings by Rachael Naomi Remen, MD.

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It is full of stories of inspiration and wisdom. This is the type of book that I want to share with people who are looking for a message to help them through their day, especially the days that can be so challenging in the world of the public safety professional.

Here is an excerpt from the book’s introduction:

My grandfather was a scholar of Kabbalah, the mystical teachings of Judaism…… According to the Kabbalah, at some point in the history of things, the Holy was broken up into countless sparks which were scattered throughout the universe. There is a god spark in everyone and in everything, a sort of diaspora of goodness. God’s immanent presence among us is encountered daily in the most simple, humble and ordinary ways. Kaballah teaches that the Holy may speak to you from it’s many hidden places at any time. The world may whisper in your ear or the spark of God in you may whisper in your heart. My grandfather showed me how to listen.

As I read the book I will share some of the stories with you. Hopefully they will strengthen your soul and help you build a healthy spirit.

8752 + 9147 + 3 = 17902

I can’t sleep. It’s almost midnight, Sunday night, Monday morning. There are several reasons I can’t sleep. I was up late this weekend and got into a sleep cycle different than my normal 10pm to bed, 6am wake up. I also dozed off for about 15 minutes before I woke up to my 10 year old saying she couldn’t get to sleep. Well, now she’s out like a light and here I sit. But I think the biggest reason I can’t sleep are those numbers: 8752 + 9147 + 3 = 17899. Those were the numbers that were in my head (well, roughly those numbers until I got up and pulled out the calculator) as I lay in bed trying to get to sleep. Actually the 3 was a 2 until about 10 minutes ago.

I lived 8,752 days before I became a cop. I lived 9,147 days as a cop. I’ve now lived 3 days as a ………? Seventeen thousand, eight hundred and ninety nine days total. So what am I now? A retired cop? A retired chief? An aspiring minister? A writer, teacher, skijorer, dad, husband, trainer, bearded getting to be an old guy? Yeah, I think the numbers are the reason I can’t sleep.

Tomorrow, actually today, is Monday. The first Monday in a lot of years that my job hasn’t been to go to work at the PD. But I’ve got a full day planned. The kids will go off to school, Cam will go off to work, I’ll wait for the dishwasher repair person to show up at home, I’ll fill out and send in my medical health insurance forms, I’ve got to write an invocation for this week’s Hennepin County Chiefs of Police Association meeting, I need to renew my kennel and dog licenses with the city, I need to write a Chaplains Message for the Minnesota Chiefs of Police Association Magazine, I’ve got to write a weblog posting (I’m getting that done now I guess), I need to set up my new office….well you get the picture. I’m not in need of finding things to fill my time. I guess there is a lot of other stuff in my head too.

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Ahhhhhh. That felt good. For me to rest, for me to find a calm and peaceful spirit, I often need to dump the clutter and noise that often consumes my mind and my thoughts. I often do that by talking (as many of you are aware) but everyone is asleep. But I also find peace in my soul by writing. For me, writing is a wonderful spiritual fitness exercise.

So as I conclude this message, since I am starting to get drowsy, I want to leave a thought and prayer (from A Guide to Prayer for All God’s People page 85) that you can use this week as your minds clutter and get noisy.

Try starting a time of quiet and meditation each day with the following:

Almighty God, creator and keeper of the world and all that is in it, help us, we pray, to know the duty you have assigned us and to so live our lives that the world may be a better place for all your creatures….Amen.

And after a period of quiet reflection, close with the following:

And now as I leave this place of quiet to return to the duties which await me, go with me my God; and keep me all the day long. Amen.

Good night.

My Last Day With The EPPD

One of my most consistent spiritual fitness exercises is to read, reflect and pray. Since February of 2002 I have used A Guide to Prayer for All God’s People as my primary piece of spiritual exercise equipment. It was a gift from a very good friend of mine, Pastor Scott. The book is broken down into weekly sections that give a variety of short readings, some prayers and some scripture from the bible. All based on a common idea or theme.

As I sit here this morning, in the quiet, with my coffee in a favorite mug, reflecting on my past career and looking to the future, this week’s message couldn’t be more appropriate: “The Call of God”. The opening prayer:

Almighty God…..I pledge my life to your service. Speak to me of my duty and faithfulness. Show me my noble task and strengthen me to walk in it. Amen.

I truly believe that we are all called to serve in our own unique ways. I have been blessed with the opportunity to serve the Eden Prairie community for the past 25 years. I have also been blessed with the future opportunity to serve those who Protect and Serve through a spiritual fitness ministry, hopefully for the next 25 years. I ask for the strength and wisdom to do so.

Well it’s time to head off to work. I won’t be picking up my final check, it’s already in the bank by direct deposit, I checked first thing this morning (Thanks Tracey and Kathy!). My first, and really my only official responsibility today will be to stop at EP Fire Station 1 for my last Friday morning free breakfast as Police Chief. I’m sure they will miss me there. But don’t worry, next Friday will mark my first EPFD Friday morning free breakfast as the Retired Police Chief! (I’ll bring the donuts!)

Sharing is Good for the Soul

As I was checking my e-mail this morning I was pleased to get the following message from my son Pete. Pete is now a resident of Alaska and a student at the University in Fairbanks. Most recently he has joined the Steese Area Fire Department and recently left dormitory life on campus and moved into the fire station. It was good for my soul to read his message today. I’m passing on his message to give a little exposure to his departments cause and to remind everyone that giving and sharing are important spiritual fitness exercises. I’m proud to be associated with the public safety professions that are so active in their service and giving to the community.

Hey everybody, about 6 months ago I joined the Steese Volunteer Fire Dept. in Fairbanks, Alaska, and am currently a Live-in firefighter/medic for them. Every year, members of the fire service participate in a program called St. Baldricks. Here’s the little thing on what it is:

“It’s that time of year again! The eighth annual St. Baldrick’s Day events are Shaving the Way to Conquer Kids’ Cancer as thousands of brave volunteers shave their heads in solidarity with children who have cancer and typically lose their hair during cancer treatment.

Worldwide, more than 160,000 children are diagnosed with cancer each year. While advances have saved many children, childhood cancer still claims the lives of more children in the US than any other disease – more than diabetes, asthma, congenital anomalies, cystic fibrosis and AIDS – combined!

Funds raised by the St. Baldrick’s Foundation will be used to fund childhood cancer research – to help speed the day when every child with cancer will be guaranteed a healthy future.

On behalf of all children with cancer, thank you for your support of the St. Baldrick’s Foundation.”

So basically what happens is I let my hair grow out until March 16th, and then get it shaved completely, in honor of the brave children who lose their hair as they go through treatment . Forty-six children are diagnosed with cancer every day. Over the last twenty-five years, the incidence of childhood cancer has increased every year. Forty years ago, childhood cancer was almost always fatal. Today, through the advancements in diagnosis and treatment, 77 percent of the children with cancer can now be cured. Despite this remarkable progress in research and treatment, cancer remains the leading cause of death by disease in children.

In the first year as an independent foundation, St. Baldrick’s Foundation raised more than $5.3 million. Last year, they raised $8,334,840 in 271 locations around the globe! It was all made possible by the generous donations of people all around the world.

We hope to obliterate last year’s total, but we will need lots of help. If you would like to make a donation, I have mentioned that I myself have signed up. You can donate to the foundation by visiting my page here:

I am also a member of the Steese Fire Department team. If you would like to make a donation to my team, please click on this link:

No donation is too small, and any donation is greatly appreciated. If money is not something that is feasible for anyone, I completely understand and another way you could help me out immensely would be just to get the word out. Forward this to any coworkers, family, friends, ANYBODY that might be interested in helping out a great cause.

If you have any questions, feel free to drop me a line anytime, you can also call me at 612.554.4495 or 907.457.3710

Thank you so much for any help you can give, no matter the amount. Take care and stay safe,

Pete Carlson

Have You Ever Had a Really Great Boss?

Well I have. And it’s one of the reasons it isn’t easy retiring this week. Meet Scott Neal, The “Friendly” City Manager of the City of Eden Prairie!

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I was a captain with the police department when he started with the city about 5 or 6 years ago.
The signature box on his e-mails was:

Scott H. Neal
Your Friendly City Manager
City of Eden Prairie
8080 Mitchell Road
Eden Prairie, Minnesota USA
55344

Call me at: 952.949.8400
Email me at: sneal@edenprairie.org
See my blog at: http://edenprairieweblogs.org/scottneal/

I figured it was just some gimmick by the new guy to establish a unique identity. Well after all the years, the “Your Friendly City Manager” label is still there. And that’s because he really IS your friendly city manager. But he is much, much more than that. He is a good boss who really cares about his people. He listens, he cares, he gives, but he is not afraid to direct, lead and make hard decisions. He and I have not always agreed on specific courses of action (I know I say that about most people I deal with), but I have always had the utmost respect for his advice, recommendations, decisions and his leadership.

He truly is a good and friendly man. I will miss his counsel, his leadership and his regular presence in my life. Hopefully I won’t miss his friendship. Hopefully that will follow me into retirement. Here’s to you Big Kahuna!

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He’s even Friendly when he’s pretending not to be.

Note: Be sure to check out his weblog linked above!