A Spirit Lifting Story

The “Spiritually Speaking” commentary in the Eden Prairie News was written by Father Tim Power this week. Its title was Revisiting classic stories at Christmas time”. He writes of the classic stories he enjoys to re-read this time of year. You click on the title for the link to the entire commentary, but I thought I’d copy the last story he told in its entirety. It is a great story to lift your spirits this time of year. Part of a healthy spiritual diet that contributes to quality spiritual fitness. Enjoy!

There is a story by Pearl S. Buck called “Christmas Day in the Morning.” I read it every year about this time to remind myself of the best gift I can give or receive. The story is about a young man’s first experience of giving a gift from the heart. Rob was 15 years old that Christmas, a strapping young man who was a great help on his family’s farm. Farm work started early in the morning, with Rob and his father out in the barn milking the cows every morning at 5 a.m. Rob liked working alongside his father, although he wasn’t too fond of getting up so early. One morning, he overheard his parents talking outside his bedroom. His father was hesitant to wake Rob for the morning’s chores. He wanted his son to get some sleep. He wished aloud that he could do all the milking himself, so as not to work Rob so much.

As Rob lay there listening to his parents’ conversation, he was struck with the realization that his father loved him. His parents had always expressed their love in simple, everyday ways, but they weren’t prone to verbalize their feelings. But this conversation was confirmation enough for Rob. His father loved him. Suddenly, Rob wanted more than anything to show his father that he loved him, too.

Christmas was only a few days away, so Rob had a little time to think. He couldn’t afford to buy his parents a fancy present. But he did have an idea of something that would make his father happy – Rob would go out early and milk the cows all by himself, before his father even woke up. So that Christmas morning, Rob woke before 4 a.m. He slipped out to the barn and milked all the cows, then made it back to bed before his father could suspect anything. Rob’s heart had been so full of love and joy that it hadn’t even felt like work to him.

Soon, his father came into his room and woke him for the morning milking. Rob acted sleepy so his father went on ahead to start without Rob. In a few minutes, Rob’s father returned. He was alternately laughing and crying, so touched by his son’s gift that he didn’t know what to say. And as he wrapped his arms around his son, Rob’s father promised that he would remember this gift every Christmas for as long as he lived. This was a gift of thoughtfulness that had not cost Rob a penny, but it was priceless to his father.

An Exercise: How Old is Your Soul?

The Strib ran a story Saturday called “How Old Is Your Body?” It talks about a current trend where people can get a physical fitness assessment that determines the “age” of their body based on its condition rather that just the number of years it has existed. Wear and tear, illness, injury, diet and exercise all have an impact. Your “body age” can be greater or less that your actual age. The goal would be to have a body that is younger and healthier than your actual years.

So I ask you this – “How old is your soul?” Those of us in the public safety professions live and work in an environment that produces considerable wear and tear on the soul. We often compensate for emotional and spiritual traumatic experiences with the strength and endurance of youth. But just as we do physically, we can use up those youthful resources and wear out our souls prematurely. Often we don’t notice it until we sustain an injury and then the road to recovery is much greater.

So, “How old is your soul?” Take a look at yourself, the spiritual trauma you’ve experienced, the injuries you have sustained, the care and treatment you’ve received. Do a self assessment on your spiritual diet and exercise program. Is your soul and the spirit that occupies it younger or older than your age?

An Exercise: Thoughts on “Choosing My Religion”

The Saturday edition of the Strib had an article titled “Choosing My Religion” in the Faith and Values section. It shared the stories of several people who had changed their religious practices. They had been brought up in a religion different from the one they now have “chosen” to practice. I was brought up an ELCA Lutheran and continue to worship at and attend an ELCA church today. However I did spend time over the years exploring different denominations as well as different cultural practices of spirituality. What I found was an appreciation for different faiths and religions, but that my spiritual comfort came from the religion I grew up with. The exploration I went through (and still continues I might add) was a confirmation of my personal faith as well as enhancement of that faith.

So here are a couple of questions to ponder:

- What, if any, is your religious/spiritual/faith identity?

- Where did your identity come from? Family, experience, friends, nature or nurture?

- Have you ever questioned that identity, explored others or if not, wondered why?

I’ve come up with a three phase process to developing your own personal spiritual fitness program: Awareness-Assessment-Application. The above questions are part of the Assessment process. Just like with a physical fitness program, spiritual fitness needs self assessment. We need to know who we are and why we are if we want to discover a program that is right for our specific personal needs.

Give these questions some thought, I’d love to hear thoughts on the subject.

An Invocation – HHCPA

The following is the invocation I offered at last Wednesday’s Hennepin County Chiefs of Police Association December meeting. It was our second annual “retired Chief’s Luncheon”. Chief Dohman of the Maple Grove Police Department started the idea last year and it received great reviews. Now that I am retiring I hope that the tradition continues for years to come.

Hennepin Chiefs Association Meeting Invocation 12/05/06

Dear God,

We thank you once again for this opportunity to gather in the spirit of Public Safety leadership. We ask that you bless the food we receive today as nourishment for our bodies, the information we receive as nourishment for our minds and the fellowship we share as nourishment for our souls.

Specifically we say thank you today for the retired members of our association. We ask for your blessings upon those that could be with us today and for those who could not be with us, but are enjoying their retirement at different locations around the world.

Again we thank you for this time together. Please guide us as we lead those who protect and serve our communities.

Amen

Wow! What a Week!

I thought that my final few weeks at the EPPD would be sitting back and winding down and relaxing. Not last week, it was anything but. You see we had an officer involved shooting. I can’t share any details since we are going though all of the necessary checks and balances, administrative reviews and incident investigations. But what I can say is that there were no significant injuries to our officers and that once again I couldn’t be prouder of the Eden Prairie Police Department and all of its members in how they handled this very serious situation. Enough said for now, it’s too soon to talk about the impacts of an event like this. But needless to say the fitness level of an organization and its members (physical, intellectual and emotional/spiritual ) has a huge impact on the outcome of these critical incidents.

Well, enough of why I didn’t post more this week. Here is where we are going next week. There were four articles in the Strib this week end that caught my eye, good platforms for spiritual fitness exercises. I’ll post some thoughts and ask a few questions throughout the week.

Saturday Faith and Values “Choosing My Religion

Sunday Source “How old is your body?

Sunday Twin Cities and Region “Coming home can be another struggle

Sunday Business/Wall Street Journal “Advice I’ll Pass Along to My Daughter” (I couldn’t link to this one for some reason)